The other day, my phone rang, and it was my son. Now, when your adult child calls and says, “Dad, I have a leak under my sink,” there are only a few possible outcomes. None of them are usually inexpensive.
He explained that there was a small leak underneath his kitchen sink. He thought he had identified where it was coming from, but he was not sure if it was the valve, a washer, the supply line, or maybe even the pipe itself.
I asked him if he could turn on his video so I could take a look. Technology is amazing. Years ago, if you had a plumbing problem, you had to describe it over the phone with statements like, “Well, it is leaking from the thing next to the other thing.” That usually led to confusion, frustration, and at least one unnecessary trip to the hardware store.
This time, he simply pointed the camera under the sink, and within seconds, I recognized the problem. I knew exactly what it was. The interesting part is that there was a time when I had absolutely no idea what I was looking at either.
Many years ago, I had a similar leak under my own sink. I remember calling my dad for advice because I had no clue what was happening. Back then, we did not have video calls. You had to describe things the best you could. Sometimes Dad could diagnose it over the phone. Sometimes Dad had to come over.
Funny how life works. One day you are the child calling for help. Then one day you become the person giving it.
As I explained the repair, told my son which part he likely needed, and gave him a temporary fix to stop the leak until he could replace it, I realized something. This was not just a plumbing lesson. It was a step. Actually, it was several steps.
Years ago, I learned something from my father. I used it. Then I did not use it for years. Then suddenly, years later, I needed it again. This time, I was the one passing it along.
That is often how life works. We learn and practice. Then life hands us an opportunity to use what we learned.
So, what does this have to do with running an online business? Well, I’m glad you asked!
Every experience in business is a step. Some steps feel exciting and some feel frustrating. Some feel like they lead nowhere. But every step teaches us something if we are willing to learn.
As I look back over the past several years of building my online business, I have learned technical skills, marketing skills, coaching skills, leadership skills, writing
skills, and enough technology to occasionally impress myself.
Some things I still use every day. And some things I no longer use at all (or so I thought). The truth is, every one of those experiences prepared me for the opportunity in front of me today. Without those earlier lessons, I would not be ready for this next chapter.
I recently happened upon an tool that could grow my business in a way I had not considered. Now, this tool is not inexpensive, but it is a good investment that has the potential to take my business to a whole new level.
But here is the key. I was only ready for this opportunity because of all the steps that came before it. Nothing was wasted, every lesson mattered, every mistake taught me something and every skill became another tool in the toolbox.
Five Reasons to Embrace the Steps in Your Business Journey
- Every step teaches a skill you may need later. You may not realize it today, but the lesson you learn now could become the solution you need years from now.
- Growth happens one step at a time. No one starts at the top of the staircase. Success is built one lesson, one experience, and one opportunity at a time.
- The hard steps build confidence. Every challenge you overcome gives you confidence to face the next one.
- Your experiences become someone else’s wisdom. Just like my father helped me and I helped my son, your business journey allows you to help others.
- Opportunities often appear when preparation meets timing. The next big opportunity in your business may already be around the corner. The question is whether the steps you have taken have prepared you for it.
How many times have you learned something and wondered why you even needed to know it only later do you discover that lesson was preparing you for something bigger? Business is rarely a straight line, it is a staircase.
You do not always see the next step. Sometimes you trip, sometimes you pause and sometimes you wonder if you are even climbing the right staircase. But every step matters.
And if you keep learning, growing, and moving forward, one day you may look back and realize that all those little experiences were quietly preparing you for exactly where you are today.
I would love to hear from you. What is one lesson or experience from your past that seemed unimportant at the time, but later proved incredibly valuable? Leave a comment below. I always enjoy hearing your stories.
If you are building a business and looking for tools, training, coaching, and a supportive community to help you take your next step, I encourage you to explore the Internet Profits Academy. There is now a FREE option with no obligation, so you can take a look, explore what is available, and decide for yourself if it is right for you. Sometimes the difference between standing still and moving forward is simply having the right people walking alongside you. After all, success is not about skipping steps, It is about appreciating them.
And if you ever find yourself staring at a leaking sink or a confusing business problem, remember this, somewhere out there is someone who already climbed that step and is willing to help you take the next one.
My wife listened patiently as I shared this great revelation about life, learning, and business. She smiled and said, “That’s wonderful dear. Just remember, if our sink starts leaking, I still expect you to fix it instead of writing a blog post about it.”
“Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.” – Oscar Wilde
“There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.” – Colin Powell
And of course, a few VERY BAD Dad jokes:
I used to vocalize my of plumbing repairs, but eventually I just piped down.
My wife says I never throw anything away. I prefer to call it “maintaining an inventory of future solutions.”
Until next time, STAY FRESH, Friends!
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Thanks, Ernie, for the great reminder that many different things, over the course of many years sometimes, often lead us to very specific moments we never could have anticipated.
Your #5 reason in the ‘embrace our steps’ list says it all – preparation meets timing.
Your example of a plumbing repair is perfect! We experience lots of things throughout our days, months, years of working and living, absorbing massive amounts of information and data, growing in familiar areas and learning in many areas we had never explored. Then one day – boom! We have an opportunity to pull from those experiences to provide insight and value to a current situation.
Thanks, Ernie!
KAS
Hi KAS – Thank you so much. I really appreciate your thoughtful comment.
I love the way you put it. We spend years filling our toolbox, and then one day life hands us a project we never saw coming. Suddenly that random skill or forgotten lesson is exactly what we needed.
Now I’m just hoping the next opportunity that comes my way doesn’t involve crawling back under another sink.
Thanks again for taking the time to share your thoughts. Comments like yours always make my day.
Hey Ernie,
This was such a great reminder. It’s funny how the lessons that seem small or unimportant at the time often become exactly what we need later. We may not always understand where each step is leading us, but every experience adds something valuable to our journey.
I really loved the story about your dad helping you, and now you being able to pass that knowledge on to your son. That really shows how what we learn can continue helping others long after the original lesson.
Thank you for sharing such valuable insight, and for the laugh I had at the end! Your wife definitely knows how to keep those business revelations grounded in reality. 😊 Thanks, Ernie!
Hi Meredith – Thank you so much. I really appreciate your kind words.
You’re absolutely right. We usually don’t recognize the value of a lesson until life decides it’s time for the final exam. Thankfully, it’s open book, because we get to draw from everything we’ve learned along the way.
And yes, my wife has a remarkable gift for keeping my feet firmly planted on the ground. Apparently, deep business insights are nice, but fixing the sink is still on my job description.
Thanks again for taking the time to leave such an encouraging comment. It truly means a lot.
Hi Ernie,
Funny how you keep reminding me of how many things I learned from my dad…
Last year I was changing the fan in my washroom. Being on the 2nd floor, I needed to access the attic to properly install it. Well, like many other projects of mine, it wasn’t going as “well or easily” as I thought it would and then it struck me.
I asked myself: “what would dad do?” and as you mentioned, (without the video), the answer came to me from a totally different experience but one where he taught me a few tricks that would definitely help.
In less time it takes than to turn on the breaker, it was installed!
Like you mention, so many times life through different nuggets of experience our way and we never know how they can help us! (I sure would have wanted to be able to film it – it sure was hot in that attic!).
Cheers!
Hi Marc – I love this story. I think many of us have reached that point where we stop and ask ourselves, “What would Dad do?” (or uncle/aunt, or friend, or mentor, etc.) It’s amazing how those lessons seem to stay tucked away until the exact moment we need them.
I’m glad everything worked out, although I think surviving a summer attic deserves some kind of medal. I would have been looking for a way to install that fan with a very long stick from the hallway.
Thanks for sharing your story. I always enjoy reading your comments, and I have a feeling our “dads” would be smiling knowing they’re still helping us, even all these years later.